Strong Women Aren't Hard To Approach

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She able to dine in by herself

She's able to get things she want by herself

She's independent lady, 

Why would she need a man then? "

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What a misleading concept of understanding. 

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When Khadijah ra, possessed a vast of business, even one of the top businesswoman at her prime, why would she proposed to Prophet SAW? 

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Let's take things slightly out this for awhile, for us (inc me) to ponder upon. 

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First, what's definition of strong women?

Someone who possed strong personality wheres her voices, her opinions gave a great impact to society/public/politics?

Someone who has her own stand, her own goals which not affected by criticism of her surroundings? 

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Should I emphasise how our society labelled strong women is?

Stable job? Great car? Honda? Toyota? BMW? Bought using her own pocket money.

Someone who do groceries by her own? 

Someone who go anywhere without constant need of accompanies? 

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independent is not equal to strong

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And being strong/independent aren’t wrong either. 

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Back to stories of Prophet Muhammad SAW and Khadija RA, it’s Prophet’s personality and potential that lead to the proposal. She made him as her business partner rather than her employee. 

And the subsequent stories after Rasulullah SAW received the first revelation, it’s Khadijah who calm him down, trust in every single words of him and became the first person to embrace Islam. 

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She supports the dakwah until the end of her life, and yet played important roles in the beginning of the great history ever existed.

Bukan senang untuk berkorban segala harta, dunia dan jiwa. 

But she made it, and thus became the explemary muslimah for all of us. 

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Okay here’s some personal opinions regarding prominent ladies as general. 

Going tru several biographies of Queen Victoria, Empress of Russians, Marie Antoinette of France, Empress Wu Zetian, Empress Myeongsong etc cause the list will never end…..

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The similarities of their stories were how they actually decided to fight the inequalities of women during their period of time, started with their husband actually (expect Queen Victoria)

Disastified with incompetence of their husband/son in ruling the country, they eventually took over the throne either directly or indirectly and yeah, surprisingly brought a lot improvement of governance ( and that’s how they become prominent ladies)

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But the so called feminism, is so empty. Sounds glorious outside like a shell decorated with lots of diamonds and pearls, but so empty inside. 

There’s no loyalty in their so called great stories. 

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What I would to highlight in this post is; 

NO, women don’t need coach bags, BMW, luxurious wedding/trips.

Yang memerlukan semua itu bukannya wanita, 

Tapi si pengkikis duit. 

Yang wanita perlukan hanyalah kesetiaan, dan kerjasama dalam menjadi sebuah pasukan yang hebat dalam membentuk unit-unit kecil yang akan bergabung menjadi bangsa yang maju kehadapan. 

Kerana wanita yang hebat dan kuat itu, punyai misi dan moto hidup yang kukuh dan bukan sekadar terhias terlitup dalam erti kata cinta sahaja. 

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Isunya sekarang, berapa ramai lelaki-lelaki yang hidupnya bermoto menjadi pewaris bangsa, bukannya sekadar hidup seperti kera di hutan. 

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